The essence of leadership is decision making.
The essence of decision making is character.
You're a person of integrity who feels the call to leadership.
Let's make it count like never before!
The Experience of
Working With Fabi
The Initial Consultation
To be clear, we are creating a private, 1:1 coaching relationship.
Whether it's our initial consultation, or we've worked together for years, I will always be on the lookout for the next courageous, wise, and loving move for you to make in your life. I will also make sure it's bold enough to actually get you where you want to go.
As my longtime friend and client, Isaac Yonemoto, tells people he refers to me:
Fabi will give you guidance that is weighted towards "what you need to hear" over "what you want to hear", and that has made all the difference.
I promise to always say the hard thing, right from our first meeting. My coaching is for people who appreciate a bold, tactful, compassionate approach.
Seeing so many good people with great vision struggle with self-doubt and performance anxiety, and unable to ground their vision with the people in their life, makes me sick. I’m doing something about it NOW.
I want the people with the best ideas, hearts, and sense of service to win. I want you to be at peace with yourself, respected for your leadership, and paid well for it!
The Path
My approach is NOT one-size-fits-all. I have spent years developing a system by which I create a fully customized program with you and for you.
But there is one common aim.
I want you to:
BE THE ONE PEOPLE LOOK TO WHEN THE WAY FORWARD IS UNCLEAR.
This is the ultimate litmus test. The means and the end.
The path I'm proposing makes you the person looked to and explicitly trusted under stress.
Do you ruminate about the same stuff?:
- "Making decisions drains my energy."
- "People are going to find out I don't know what I'm doing."
- "I'm in too deep."
- "I will never have time for myself."
- "They don't like me. They just put up with me because I'm the boss."
- "No one understands my vision."
- "I'm just not good enough." OR
- "I am good enough, but people aren't seeing it!"
On the path of development, most leaders think they need:
- more efficieny
- more control
- new systems
- and now... more AI
Your life and leadership doesn't need more.
Slow down.
It needs you to get comfortable in your own skin.
Let's get clear on your CHARACTER.
This is more than an evaluation of your integrity and morale strength, but an exploration of how your own unique personality and essence could show up even more powerfully, especially in uncertain situations.
Leadership is a relationship. Relationships are built on communication: written, verbal, and non-verbal.
People don't trust someone who is merely going through the motions of leadership.
They want to follow a real, authentic person.
Someone who:
- has a zest for life and authentic interests.
- is curious about everyone's point-of-view.
- knows how to communicate vision.
- always shows up when the chips are down.
Stop chasing performance upgrades.
If you're a person of integrity, I'm ready to be your greatest advocate.
I'm ready to get you clear on where you're at and where you're going.
Results
Here's what you can expect when you go all in.
- Bold and compassionate accountability. Regular check-ins to keep you focused on your path, and not getting distracted by what other people are doing. Your world needs YOU.
- Staying ahead in what matters. While others race to install new systems, you're doing the timeless work that actually compounds: becoming great at situational and self-awareness.
- Confidence and joy in your work and leadership position. Your work team and your friends and family get to be with the grounded, joyful version of you.
- Time to explore, or just be. Who are you without leadership responsibilities? Do you even know? That person matters too, more than you realize.
The Process
- Click the "Work With Me" button at the top of the page.
- Fill out and submit the short form.
- I will be in touch to schedule a 20 minute connection call.
- If we're a fit on the connection call, we will schedule an initial consult. (free)
If we decide to work together after the initial consult, it will be for three months.
We will meet 3 times in the first month to create a full picture of what's holding you back and how to get through it.
We will meet 2x/month for the remaining two months.
Between meetings you get virtually unlimited access to me for feedback, grounding and accountability as you take the new actions in your life.
Regular meetings are important.
But life happens in the moment.
Self-doubt creeps up in the moment.
Your next courageous move can only be made in a moment.
These check-ins between meetings are often what people appreciate most about working with me.
Most of my clients are people who decided to continue with me after this initial three month period. With each of them I have created a custom framework with custom lines of communication that serves their ongoing growth.
Perhaps you will become an ongoing client. But first we get you clear and progressing on the timeless path of self-awareness...
So that you will...
BE THE ONE PEOPLE LOOK TO WHEN THE WAY FORWARD IS UNCLEAR.